It's about the cops, for one. They aren't totally innocent in all of this. They tend to be by nature aggressive. Of course they have to be. Meek and mild doesn't get the job done. But too often they come across as over armed bullies and behave in the same manner. In defense of that behavior, when the majority of the people you deal with are criminals of one sort or another your defenses and defensiveness are always up. People not used to functioning in that environment get their own defenses up and unintended conflicts occur. What I'm suggesting here is the police need to know when to mind their manners and better sense who they're dealing with.
Now for the blacks who refuse to do more than cry victim. I've addressed it before and won't go into another lengthy diatribe but attitude and behavior do a lot to put police on edge. Plus the numbers who are disproportionately involved in arrestable crime. When there are so many who have raised themselves above ghetto mentality and have become fantastic role models for any race, you know it can be done.
I'm tired of the blacks versus police argument. The police have a job to do. If the blacks are the ones most often on the receiving end of the baton ask why. It's not because of their race. It's because of their behavior.
Until we all behave by the same code we will continue to be misunderstood by one another. The black population reminds me of other social misunderstandings we harbour. Take gays who flaunt their lifestyle, are in your face with it knowing full well their behavior is offensive to many. Or other foreign groups who refuse to learn English. All are minorities of their particular segment of their populations yet they garner the headlines making it difficult for those who would and have risen above it and have become one with the country as Americans.
Perhaps the media, too, needs some retraining. They need to return to objective reporting. Truth should trump ratings. Why doesn't it?